TIRED OF SHRINKING YOURSELF TO FIT A WORLD THAT WASN’T BUILT FOR YOU

Become more deeply connected to yourself, live in alignment with your neurotype and feel liberated to create the change you want to see.

YOU DON’T NEED FIXING,
THE SYSTEM DOES

My 1:1 coaching is designed for queer and neurodivergent changemakers done squeezing into systems never built for us. Together, we'll dismantle and queer the "rules," align with your neurotype, and create a life that feels powerful, authentic, and unapologetically yours. This is liberation in action and fuel for the change only you can lead.

MY 1:1 WORK SUPPORTS YOU TO. . .

so that you can embody the change you want to see (and came here to create!) and experience greater autonomy

LIVE A MORE SELF-DIRECTED AND CONSENT-BASED LIFE

so that you can navigate life and make decisions aligned with your values and needs, not based on external expectations

BECOMING MORE DEEPLY CONNECTED TO YOURSELF

so that you can build sustainable ways of doing things, shine a light on internalised ableism and feel more equipped to navigate burnout

ALIGN WITH YOUR NEUROTYPE

so that you can find and collaborate with those who share your vision for a better world with a shared sense of solidarity and purpose

BUILD MEANINGFUL COMMUNITY

so that you can prioritise things that truly matter to you and reduce the chances of overwhelm

MANAGE YOUR PRECIOUS & (PROBABLY) LIMITED ENERGY

WHO IS IT FOR?

The people I work with are committed to creating meaningful change, whether in their personal lives, through their work, or at a systemic level. You might not describe yourself as a changemaker or cycle-breaker, but if you challenge the status quo and believe we all deserve better than the current systems and ways of relating to ourselves and each other, then I’m speaking to you.

  • You’ve spent life so far pushing through and trying all the possible “fixes”, before realising you don’t need to apologise for how you’re wired. Together we’ll dismantle the ableist beliefs you’ve internalised and rebuild life in a way that actually works for you.

  • Your bold ideas matter deeply, but you're burning out trying to dismantle broken systems while at the same time having to operate within them - hello capitalism! Together we’ll navigate how to sustain your impact whilst protecting your limited energy.

  • You've already rejected society's blueprint for how to live and are ready to queer the shit out of everything. Together we'll question what you've been told is "normal" and figure out what actually feels good to you in a way that honors who you are and how you want to show up in the world.

“TELL ME, WHAT IS IT YOU PLAN TO DO WITH YOUR ONE WILD AND PRECIOUS LIFE?”

~ Mary Oliver

BOLD • LIBERATION • COACHING •

BOLD • LIBERATION • COACHING •

HOW DOES IT WORK?

We meet on a fortnightly basis over a 6-month period. This time frame allows us to dive deep and make lasting progress. While some clients choose to continue working with me beyond that, there’s no pressure to do so.

Our work together will be unique to you. Depending on your goals, we may draw from a variety of approaches.

  • A conversational approach where we dig into the beliefs and patterns that keep you stuck, and vision new ways of being that actually support you

  • A gentle and supportive way to revisit and transform traumatic experiences by resourcing your younger self and understanding how those experiences may be holding you back

  • A combination of all sorts of witchy goodness including tarot/oracle cards and visualisation, to support you unlocking what your intuition already knows

GIVE VOXER A TRY

All the Unearth action takes place over on secure messaging app, Voxer. I’m a big fan of it’s walkie-talkie function, meaning you can either listen to voice messages live or listen and respond in your own time.

If you’d like to give it a try, listen to a message from me here with some quick steps on how to get started.

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BOLD • LIBERATION • COACHING •

QUICK VIBES CHECK

Some of the most important values that underpin everything I do are…

SELF DIRECTION

Connecting with and listening to yourself and navigating from that place, rather than how society dictates you should be living.

NEURO-AFFIRMATIVE

Recognising that neurodivergence is a vital part of human diversity, and whilst it can be incredibly challenging to exist in a world built for neurotypicals, we are not disordered and do not need to be fixed.

INTERSECTIONALITY

Understanding that various aspects of our identity interplay and overlap to create unique experiences of oppression and privilege.

CUROSITY & NON JUDGEMENT

Holding complexity and nuance, being able to get curious about what might be going on rather than judging ourselves or others harshly.

SEEKING TO DISMANTLE SYSTEMS OF OPPRESSION

Zooming out to recognise the systems that we exist within and are harmed by and working wherever possible to dismantle them, e.g. capitalism, colonialism, racism, transphobia etc.

CONSENT

Understanding and communicating your yeses, nos and maybes, knowing you can change your mind / withdraw consent at any time.

PRICING

The cost for working together over 6 months is £2400

This includes 12 x 1-hour sessions, plus 6 months of voice/text support via Voxer, so you’ll have ongoing access to me between sessions.

Some clients prefer to pay in monthly instalments of £400, and interest-free payment plans are available – no questions asked.

TRANSPARENCY

As a neurodivergent person and a single parent to two neurodivergent children, my work hours are limited. To ensure I can provide the best support to my clients while meeting my family’s financial needs, I work with a small number of clients at a time.

For every 8 full fee-paying clients I take on, I offer 2 discounted spots to people who wouldn’t otherwise be able to access my 1:1 coaching.

WAYS TO WORK WITH ME

SPEAKING & TRAINING

Challenge the status quo and ignite meaningful change through workshops on neurodiversity, neuroaffirming practice and creating inclusive futures.

ASK ME ANYTHING

Is there something you'd like my unique perspective on? Bold ideas, big decisions, creative projects - whatever you need.

FAQs

  • Unlike some other therapeutic practices, coaching is an equal relationship defined by consent, empathy, safety, confidentiality, non-judgement, honesty, self-reflection and humour.

    At no time will I try to fix you, but I will instead help you to rediscover the untapped and infinite resources you have within.

    To see what my clients say about working with me, check out some testimonials.

  • Your comfort matters! Please feel free to stim, take breaks if you need to and have to hand anything you need to feel as comfy as possible, e.g. blankets, fidget toys, a warm drink.

    You might also like to bring a notepad and pen if you’re someone who processes best whilst doodling or writing.

    In order for our work to be as impactful as possible, it’s important to be somewhere quiet where you can speak freely without feeling observed by others.

    If you have any access needs, please do let me know.

  • Sessions usually take place online via Zoom (video calling platform), but they can also be via telephone if you prefer.

    Asynchronous coaching via Voxer is another option if you’d prefer to speak via voice notes for the allotted hour.

  • The majority of my 1:1 client work takes place during UK office hours on Thursdays and Fridays. I can sometimes offer Tuesday evenings or Wednesday daytimes, depending on availability. If a different time would work for you, you’re welcome to enquire and I can advise how my schedule is looking.

  • I offer interest-free payment plans. Most clients pay in monthly installments of £400, but you’re welcome to suggest an alternative if that works better for you, e.g. paying a larger amount up front followed by lower monthly installments. We can usually make it work so think about what might work for you and we can chat about it in the Intro Call.

    After we’ve agreed a payment plan that works for us both, you’ll receive an invoice from Square if you’re based in the UK, or from Wise if you’re elsewhere.

  • Whilst my work is trauma-informed and I often work with clients to release and resolve trauma, working with me is not a substitute for acute mental health care or substance abuse treatment. If you are currently in any kind of therapy, please inform your medical or therapeutic practitioner of your intention to work with a coach.

THE PODCAST

Listen as I chat to changemakers and thought leaders who are making waves with their work.

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ARLO WEST

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HAVE A QUESTION?

Perhaps you’d like some more information about something you’ve seen here or have a question about how we might best work together. Whatever it is, I’d love to hear from you!