Feel trapped by ‘rules’ you never agreed to?

I have that T-shirt!

I'm AuDHD, queer, non-binary, witchy and finally learning to live the life I want.

In 2016, I discovered deschooling and consent-based education while home-educating my two awesome kids. Like Alice, I fell into this rabbit hole and never left — because it’s my wonderland.

Before this discovery, I used all my energy trying to understand why everyone else found things so effortless. I didn’t know I was AuDHD. I didn’t know that society's expectations weren’t actual rules to live by. All I knew was that something felt wrong. And I thought it was me.

But I was never the problem. And neither are you.

Systems like the patriarchy, capitalism and colonialism have all shaped what "normal" is. But "normal" doesn't work for most of us. In fact, marginalised folk know this the most.

Once we see that, everything starts to look different. It gets clearer. We can finally see what we actually want to keep in our lives.

I began to learn what brings me joy, what held me back, what lifted me up and what didn’t. I’ve let go of so much, and embraced so much.

are these ‘normal’?

patriarchy

colonialism

capitalism

This journey isn't theoretical for me. I’m on it, and probably always will be.

So you’ll find we’ll have lots of overlapping shared experience. Travelling is always better with pals, right?

Now I call this wonderland my work!

With a history of eating disorders, I started learning about diet culture. I wanted to liberate people from the lies about bodies, weight and dieting. But it turned out to be the tip of the iceberg. This kind of systemic oppression doesn't stop at food. It's everywhere, shaping how we think about ourselves and what we deserve.

Since, I've worked with over 360+ clients across 4 continents, helping them experience positive shifts in their lives. I’ve supported hundreds of late-identified autistic adults by designing the Thriving Autistic Discovery Programme, and built consent-based, neuroaffirming spaces for almost a decade.

Alongside this, I’m committed to advancing LGBTQIA+ wellness. I sit on the Advisory Panel at Proud Wellness CIC, a non-profit on a mission to make wellness genuinely inclusive for LGBTQIA+ people.

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in case you’re wondering

I’m neurodivergent
(AuDHD)

I realised this in my mid-30s. Turns out not everyone alarmingly overthinks, panics or feels like an alien from another planet! mild shock

I’m witchy
**(As f*ck)**

I’ve always felt connected to something bigger. Finding tarot, spirituality and community helped me lean into that feeling. Now, it’s woven through everything I do.